Attraction is the main factor when one talks about getting into a relationship. There are instances when it comes naturally; however, there are times when one should work for it, sometimes, even harder than others.
Every person has different styles in attracting people towards them, especially for men. Men pull out almost all the stops just to become a magnet for the women. If you heard about a man being more attractive once tied down, then one will know what it is being talked about in this article.
When targeting a specific lady or even when they are already dating, men tend to play safe when talking to them. They will never, in any point, talk about women that they are attracted to. This happens because of the false notion that when you create an impression that you are easily attracted to other women, it will lessen your chances of bagging the girl. This is false in some points. In fact, women are likely to be attracted to a guy who speaks about the girls that they like; it actually ups your chances of getting them. It might sound weird, considering the general reputation that media has created for women.
When trying to attract a woman to you, one should create an aura – an atmosphere of confidence and that you already have certain tastes in women. This eliminates the image of being indecisive regarding one’s taste. It creates an impression that one knows what he wants. An attitude of being able to know what one wants is attractive to some girls. In fact, they become even more attractive to another if they are already in a relationship. This creates a thought in the mind of other women that the guy is suitable for a relationship. It is like a stamp of approval from the woman he is currently with.
In addition, it may be productive for the guys to relay the message of “not planning to be in a relationship” in spite of the number of girls that one is mentioning. This is another attraction factor that girls would go for. It is in a woman’s nature to try to change a man. They accept it as a challenge; it is their way of proving that they can change someone in spite of who they were in the past. It boosts their confidence to do so. Girls have become so competitive nowadays that they want to portray a strong image to others. This may have been caused by the society that we are currently in.
Now, it can be safe to conclude that playing safe is not necessarily safe at all time; at times, it can bring you down. Be confident and show girls a strong image, something that will surely attract a woman.